Many of us say: I prayed but Allah did not grant me what I prayed for!!? Or did not accept my dua
Have you ever asked yourself why?
Do you know for dua to be accepted and granted you must fulfill four conditions?
1. Yaqeen or (certainty) that Allah will answer your call
This is when you are praying and deep inside you, you don’t have the
yaqeen or you are not certain that Allah will answer your call.
According to the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah: “Make dua’ to Allah when you
are certain of a response.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi; classed as hasan by
al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’
So pray to him with
determination and belief, tell him (Ya Allah give shifa to my child, Ya
Allah grant me a pious husband, Ya Allah grant me rizq halal, Ya Allah I
know you will not let me down, Ya Allah I have no one to help me and
lift my pain except you……….)
Talk to him with your heart, you
don’t have to use Arabic words, use your language and plead and beg and
complain to him…….You spend hours complaining and telling your stories
to friends and strangers and in the end they give you a look of remorse
and there is nothing they can do for you, some even use it against you
when they feel like it…..so why not take your story and your complaint
to the one who can make a change, the one who can give you the
solution?!
How can you pray and doubt the acceptance? Who are you doubting? And why are you doubting?
He is the creator of the whole Universe….the one who says to something Koun fa yakoun (Be and it shall be).
Clear the fog from your belief my dear sister and brother and know that
he is the only one who can grant you what you wish for…..no one
else…..NO ONE
“And your Lord says: Make duaa (supplicate) unto me, and I will respond and accept your duaa”. (Surah Ghaafir: Ayat 60)
“I respond and accept the duaa of the one who supplicates unto me”. (Surah Al Baqarah: Ayat 186)
“Make duaa unto Allah with humility and secret”. (Surah Ale Imraan: Ayat 55)
“Verily, Allah is modest and noble. He feels ashamed that a servant
lifts up his hand in supplication and he is returned empty handed”. (Abu
Dawood)
He is telling you all this to comfort you and give you the guarantee…….so do you still have doubts?
2. Khoushou3 or concentration while making the dua….. Pray with your heart and focus on what you are saying.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Know that
Allah does not answer a dua from a distracted heart.” Narrated by
al-Tirmidhi, 3479; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’,
245.
Focus and talk to him, tell him all your problems and issues and he will lift them in shaa Allah.
3. Not having patience when making dua
The Prophet PBUH said: “One of you may be answered so long as he is not
hasty and says, ‘I said dua’ but I got no response.’” Narrated by
al-Bukhaari, 6340; Muslim, 2735.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be
pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH), "The
supplication of every one of you will be granted if he does not get
impatient and say (for example): `I supplicated my Rubb but my prayer
has not been granted'.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
The
narration of Muslim is: "The supplication of a slave continues to be
granted as long as he does not supplicate for a sinful thing or for
something that would cut off the ties of kinship and he does not grow
impatient.'' It was said: "O Messenger of Allah! What does growing
impatient mean?'' He (PBUH) said, "It is one's saying: `I supplicated
again and again but I do not think that my prayer will be answered.'
Then he becomes frustrated (in such circumstances) and gives up
supplication altogether.''
The one who pray and have no
patience for their dua, is like the one who plants a seed and water it
for few days, the plant starts to grow slowly under the soil but it has
not reached the surface yet and just before it comes out, he gives up
and stops watering it…..so it dies before it even comes to light.
Don’t be hasty….keep making dua….keep repeating it and you will see the
response very soon just be patient and never stop. Even if Ramadan
finishes, continue and in shaa Allah before the next Ramadan you will
have what you asked for.
4. Eating Halal ….. your rizq must be
halal if you want your dua to be accepted…you can’t eat haram and expect
your dua to be accepted….they don’t go together.
Prophet SAW
said, “…a man having been on a long journey is all disheveled and
dust-coated and he stretches his hands upwards for du’a (saying): ‘ 0 my
Lord! 0 my Lord!’ while his food is haram (unlawful), his drink: haram,
his dress: haram, and he himself was brought up on the haram - how
then, could his du’a become worth accepting?” (Reported by Muslim)
So Make sure your earning is halal if you want your dua to be accepted.
Finally I add to these beautiful conditions the etiquette of the Prophet PBUH in making dua:
Saeed Ibn Al Musayab said: With these in shaa Allah your dua will for sure be accepted.
1. Take Wudu.
2. Face the Qibla
3. Start with Istighfaar.
4. Address and ask Allah with his Asma’a Al Husna (Names) …. Ya Kareem, Ya Raheem, Ya Mujeeb, Ya Qareeb….etc.
5. Thank Allah SWT and Salli Ala Al Rasoul.
6. Insist and repeat your dua with concentration and humiliation.
7. Be certain at the end of your dua that Allah SWT will accept your dua.
8. Finally, when you finish your dua, go look for a poor person and
give them sadaqa to purify your money and lift the sorrow of someone
else.
And in shaa Allah after all this your dua will not be rejected.
Finally I remind myself and you my dears of the following hadith
“Allah becomes angry upon the one who does not make duaa”. (Ahmed)
So please make dua and never give up.
Thank you so much!! may Allah accept and grant us all greatness ever!! indeed i have learned a lot from this page. i pray He accepts and rewards me for my research. amin!
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